Best Way to overcome Bullying

I remember back in my early school days I was that girl who used the be the most talkative and loved by every teacher, always smiling. But with time that talkative and chirpy girl lost somewhere , do you all want to know why??

Yes I was a victim of "Bullying" harsh but the ugly truth.

Those who have faced bullying during some part of the life either bullied at school, college, at work or by so called frenimies will relate how a persons whole perspective towards life change due
to this carp of a thing called Bullying. We became more and more reserve to our-self, always fearing if someone is watching us having fun or what will people say if I do this If I do that. There is a drastic change in our thinking, living constantly in the fear and pressure of bullying.

That smile which used to melts heart turn into grumpy face those sparking eyes that used to dream turns sour and dry. We like to be left alone prefer dark over bright yes bullying does this to a person.

So what can we do. Should we surrender to these people who are constantly bullying us ?
This is the ques you all have to ask yourself and your heart, soul and mind will give you the answer you need.

And if you still are in doubt and don't know what to do if you are bullied then here are some best tips and tricks to help you which I had followed myself.

1. Stop living in the shadows 

Whenever we suffer bullying we tend to shell our-self in our own world. Our eyes are always in search of those who bully us and the only thing we want is to be lost in the crowd of people so that they can't reach us. Is this the solution? I will say a Big NOOO

Don't change yourself for other instead of hiding face your fears you don't need to be a superhuman like Batman to conquer bullying all you need is courage and break that shell and rock you have been hiding under.

2. Make friends 

It is not that difficult to find friends that really care for you and vice versa. Don't be a  loner cuz you are bullied and you can't trust anyone give others a change to be your friend become not everyone is same. Alone you can move a mile but together you can move the world.
Be a sport don't be a loner.

3. Be a bull 
You all know Bull right ?? He is massive, strong , determined . You have to be like that. stand in front of the bullying. Don't give up Say No if you don't like something and raise your voice , don't be afraid if people laughs at you, mock you just say No and they will eventually back off. Its better to stand that to be laid back.

4. Be creative and Inspiring
Enhance you expertise , learn something new everyday. Don't ever stop dreaming and try hard to achieve your dreams and goal this is one of the best possible ways that will put a tight slap on those who have bullied you.

and last but not the least

5. Talk to you parents they are you ultimate buddies

It may not sound good to some of you to discuss you problem because we  always think what will they say , how will they react  , will it be embarrassing to them or to us. Stop thinking all these questions in your mind they are your parents who gave birth to you they will always understand
what you must be going through and will guide you and tell to fight with personal experience as they have seen a lot and have a lot to share with you.

So my favorite people don't let bullying trap you in a cage. Be free and rise , shine like a diamond in the sky.

And lastly If you have anything any suggestion to share about bullying don't hesitate share with us so that it can help others to
Comment, share and spread the word.

Xoxo :)

Lost Love Desires ........

Thinking about the things that we can do together

Lying on the bed, warm breath 

Heart racing fast, bleeding the potion red

Waiting for you, touching myself

Pretending like you are here by myself

Got those desires for you babey

Melting like a wax, bleeding the potion red

babey

You said you will be back on Friday night

Don't want to be by myself tonite

Dressed down in red to tease you

 Ready to give it all to please you

Wish you were here in flash

Got those desires for you babey

Melting like a wax, bleeding the potion red

babey

Standing by the window looking for you

Scared and you know my love for you is true

Finger on the lips thinking about the things you will do

 making me go crazy babey

praying for you to hold me 

dressed down to tease you

wishing you were here in flash

Got those desires for you babey

You are making me go crazy tonite babey

Just hold me tight babey

come home tonite babey 

.....Thinking about you babey.....

karma Or Judgement ....

A good old saying "What you saw is what you reap" , some call it Karma. But is it really karma cuz whatever you do it  always end up being connected to on of the seven sins by the people in one way or another. Either you are referred as sinner or a righteous men/women deviated from the path.

For me and most of you will agree that "Life is to short to live under the fear of constant judgement by others". follow your heart and do what you want with your mind, body , soul just keep one thing in mind never cross limits.

One should know his/her limits of doing things so that addiction of the pleasure didn't drawn you to its deep core. Be confident in you own skin. It doesn't matter if you are young or old, thin or obese beautiful or ugly you are one of a kind and no one can dare to judge you and take your soul away.

So don't let this karma Bitch distract you , live life like its your last day but remember know your limits.

And also remeber "I love you all XOXO"

Do comment if you can feel the same it will motivate me to write more more and moree ... 

Art Of Seduction

Mystery, gleaming  eyes , perfect lips like a vintage wine , warm deep breath, wet body on which drops of water seems like diamonds sparkling so bright that it make your heart pound so hard just to get a touch. Women had been bringing men with high power and desires on knees and still can shake the top to bottom with just a glare and charismatic persona.

“Why does she have such an unnerving effect on him? Her over-whelming good looks maybe? The way her eyes blaze? The way she strokes her finger against her lower lip, teasing ? They wish to be that damm lucky finger which is touching her perfect red lips .” Little exposure, no nudity just pure dreamy seduction that drives your in a world of fantasy and tempt you till you are wet up and down.

That first time she enters the room and all eyes glow bright wide open, Women envoy to get dat persona and killer attitude and Men burning in the exotic heat even in the cold December. There is a perfection in her imperfection.

That dress showing not to much just enough to tantalize your senses .Those dreamy eyes, soft red lips makes even a devil cry to die for.

Is she an Angle or Devil in disguise. Mystery that makes you think its all for you and you alone. You mind , body , soul all in sync to uncover that deep mystery to find what's underneath.

The way she walks , she moves her fingers to order at a bar, her to die for smile make you to be by her side all the time again and again till eternity. She tease you and make you hanging in between thinking if she is into you or not which makes you want her more and moreee and moreeeeeeeeee that you are trapped in the honey comb of seduction and ultimate surrender to just have a peek inside her mystery and enchanted world.

Seductress, temptress , toxic , teaser some thing about us girls and women that can only be fantasied and imagined in wildest dreams.

You know I love you XOXO...

Pain In The Pleasure

Its been so long  since our last ride 

shouldn't kept your waiting but well I tried 

Cuz the more you wait the more is the pressure

ooohh babey now I can feel the pain in the pleasure

I am not feeling myself tonite 

and you are the medicine I need to have all nite

Press you body against me nice and tight 

Cuz I want to feel that pressure up inside

Go slow take your time 

No need to rush babey, cuz we got all nite

Cuz the more you wait the more is the pressure

ohh bebey now I can feel the pain in the pleasure

I am an angle having all shades of grey

What is good what is bad I don't give a Shit

cuz your the medicine of my every pain

breathe in, breathe out

Deep down inside

I will take whatever to burn my sorrow 

Let the tears flow in my eyes so I see the light

sparking in the paradise 

Cuzz babey babey babey

Its been so long  since our last ride 

shouldn't kept your waiting but well I tried 

Cuz the more you wait the more is the pressure

ohh bebey now we can feel the pain in the pleasure...

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Hot For The Summer ..........

Hey all my lovely, beautiful people. I know that I said I will post once in a week but this hot summer is making me go crazy and do things and one of them is this utterly non- sense songishh kinnda thing I write

Hope you will enjoy ... 

ahahaaa like dat yeaaa

here we goo ummmm

This summer is too hot to handle ahhaa

making me burn like a fire-cracker

So hot down der, just wanna cool it down

You know how to do it, don't bluff it now

Open the fridge and break that ice

Dripping all down my breast, just by the touch your lips

jump in the pool with me

I want you and only you uhhmm

You know I can take, if you all for it

Baby don't be shy ahaaaa

You know I like it 

Just gimmme more, you know I can take it

You got dat mean machine I like to ride

driving it rough,on route 69

I got dat sweet cheery, you want a bite

But you ain't gonna get it tonite

Don't be a screamer 

when I blow it hard, playing with your mind

Cozzz

I like it lil rough ahhaaa, not too much, but just enough

You know i can take, if you all for it

Baby don't be shy ahaaaa

You know I like it 

Just gimmme more, you know I can take it

If you like this crap thingeee I wrote and want to make it work on Guitar or some rock stuff you can do it or even re-edit to make it hotter ;) if I like your work I will post it on my blog. coz you know I can do dat do dat  

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You now I love you 

xoxo 

Typical Indian Family ....

Everyday should be a Sunday,  a day full of Masti, fun, chilling out with family and friends. This Sunday was pretty much busy for me as my typical Indian Family invited my Cousin brother who is recently married for Lunch. I was so excited to meet my Bhabhi(Cousin's Wife).

My Bua ji(Aunt), her husband, both my cousin brother and my Beautiful Bhabhi came around 1 pm, it is so hot in India now a day, Summer Season at its peak and my 5.2 feet tall pretty Bhabhi all dressed up in a traditional Indian Saree wearing Bagles, make up and heels so that she could match up with the Height of my cousin who is 5.7 tall.

Both of them are looking perfect as a couple, I was so happy but I didn't expected that I would freak out so bad in the later part of the day which I am gonna share with you all.

So it all started pretty well everybody was laughing, enjoying lemonade and snacks, tea and my Bhabhi who is the newest member to this crazy Indian family is sitting in the Center(All eyes on her) with my aunt by her side and we all cousin's are chit-chatting together.

My sweet Bhabhi left alone with all the elders who were asking her all sorts of question related to:

• Where she studied?
• What she like, what she don't and obvious she can't answer this ques correct as she has to answer accordingly to impress her extended family.

All the laughter's were converted into series of questions and answer like she was sitting For an IAS exam Interview. Bullets of question were fired at her one after another.

• Were would you like to go on vacation?
• Can you cook?
• Would you like to wear traditional Indian clothes or western?
• Can you make round Rotis? The most most important ques round Rotis like really duhh
• Rajma chawal, chole or pasta pusta? really lol
• Home made food or eating in restaurants?
• Did you miss your family(mother and father)?

And she was perspiring profoundly drinking glass of cold water taking small breath to answer all questions property.

And I was like WTFFF, so freaked out like my throat is choking, my lips are dry thinking that in few years I will be in the same conditions. I will be married to someone and they will Interrogate me like this and suddenly all those horrid pictures were pop in my mind.
POP POP POPPPPP.....

It was so freaking disturbing and haunted.
I was like how can I manage Saree I never like wearing Saree.
All those bangles making clinking sound some one can get hurt.
I lost in the transit and couldn't find a way to escape, want to run as far as possible.

My cousin snapped me out of the Horror of my future and said what are you thinking and I see all were laughing again they were teasing me that " Lo ji ye dekho abhe se Shaddi ke sapne dekhne lage kuddi" means Day dreaming about her marriage.

In the end all were happy and she introduced herself to the family well. Happy ending.

I was so Effing freaked out but this is how the typical Indian families are. They love each other, care for one other but when given a change can be your worst nightmare heheheeee

Many of you who are from India reading this may for sure connect with the experience. Hope you don't get freaked out as I did LOL.
I love my India. Jai ho

Movies to watch for typical India family 

• Bend it like Beckham
• Pride and prejudice
• Kabhe Kushi Kabhe Gum all Yash Raj old movies :P

You know I love you
xoxo